NEW is happy to welcome Allyson Jernagin, a NEW alumna to the board!
In 2007, as a NEW resident, Allyson’s case manager asked her what her goals were. First, she said, she wanted to reconnect with her family. Then get a job, and finally own a house.
Today Allyson has achieved all her goals.
“NEW gave me the foundation I was lacking in order to move out of homelessness and continue my recovery,” she said. “As a board member, I just want to be a part of NEW and help in any way I can and let the NEW women know that their situation isn’t where they have to end up. There’s always promise and hopefulness in tomorrow.”
Allyson will bring her skills as an accountant to the board, as well as a genuine love for the place that gave her a second chance. “I am so happy to be a part of continuing NEW’s mission,” she said.
For a few years now, Deloitte employees have been a loyal force of NEW volunteers. They serve as board members; run workshops; take field trips with our kids, and they help us with strategy and long-term goals. This year, our Deloitte supporters grew when two of their employees – NEW’s board member Kristen Grigorescu,and committee member Jake Hunter – applied NEW to Deloitte’s Matching Gifts Program.
“Back in May 2020, Deloitte decided to lead by example by reinforcing our unwavering commitment to diversity, equity and inclusion with each other and in our communities,” said Grigorescu. “It really changed the culture and mindset of the firm as we tried to address the harsh reality that systemic bias, racism, inequality, and injustice continue to exist.”
Deloitte started the Deloitte Black Action Council which aims to take a stand and make a difference on important societal issues, which includes championing racial equity and social justice. Then Deloitte asked employees for ideas of nonprofits they were interested in supporting. That’s where Kristen and Jake came in. They knew about NEW and had seen first-hand the impact NEW makes.
“The tone from our top leaders empowered us to know that we have a responsibility to support others,” Grigorescu said. “Deloitte’s practitioners agreed that now is the time to help our communities when they need it the most.”
The process of getting Deloitte to choose NEW as one of the nonprofits they would support was not hard, said Grigorescu. But the outcome has been tremendous: more than 1,000 Deloitte employees from all over the country donated to NEW, totally $44,000 from individuals. And then Deloitte matched that.
“Our individual donors not only provide essential direct support for our programs, but they also help us qualify for additional federal funding. Deloitte and their employees’ generosity, helps us tremendously to meet our financial goals. We are so grateful.”
Does your company have a matching gifts program? Inquire about the process and see if your donation to NEW can go further!
When Millicent Owusu was a girl growing up in North Carolina, she noticed something: All kinds of people seemed to feel comfortable telling her their problems. She would listen to all of them. She didn’t mind it, and in fact she liked it. “I love helping people,” said Millicent who has been a case manager and counselor at NEW’s permanent-supportive housing program, Rachael’s House for six years. “What I do is really a calling.”
For more than 25 years now, Millicent has worked as a social worker in different states and with different kinds of people, from domestic abuse victims, children in foster care, homeless and substance abusers, and now with women who have experienced homelessness.
She has a Master’s degree in Public Administration with a concentration in Human Services and recently earned a second Master’s in Critical Mental Health Counseling. She will be taking the National Counseling Exam soon.
Millicent believes that the biggest gift she offers her clients is a feeling of comfort they get from her that allows them to open up and express their feelings. One woman, “T” came to NEW recently and would not talk to anyone. T had suffered a mental breakdown and had lost her job, her house and her kids. The trauma manifested itself in a muteness that no one could break. But then, for some reason, T started talking to Millicent and little by little Millicent could help her. That Millicent said, “was a real success.”
Millicent has loved working at NEW where, she said, because the atmosphere is more relaxed, she is able to do what she does best: build strong relationships centered on trust. “NEW is the best job I’ve ever had,” she said. “I love NEW because of the atmosphere and the ability to have a person-to person relationship with the ladies.”
With Millicent’s new Master’s degree, she has a goal of eventually opening her own counseling service someday, one that focuses on the whole person, in mind, body and spirit.
“Working with people to help them get to a better place is definitely what I am meant to do with my life,” she said. “It’s not always easy but it is a real privilege to be with people at their darkest hours, and help them work their way up to see the light.”
Resilience is defined as “an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change.” I think resiliency is being tested and strengthened
in all of us now. Many of you have reached out over the past year to inquire how our ladies are doing and quite frankly in answer to that question, they are doing well, given our current circumstances.
Throughout my career working with individuals experiencing homelessness, I have been privy to many of the circumstances faced by those I have served. I have thought on more than a few occasions, “no one should have to endure that and I could not have survived that!” The trauma suffered as a result of physical and emotional abuse, abandonment and lack of nurturing love and support have made them resilient. While the circumstances of their lives have been daunting, they have persevered. As I pondered their resiliency, I asked Antoinette, one of our program managers her thoughts:
“I do think that life circumstances and trauma experienced by our clients contribute to their resiliency. I also believe that it is imperative that we assist our clients with recognizing how their strengths (resiliency) impact their ability to become survivors, while also acknowledging how trauma and life circumstances can contribute to personal challenges. Resiliency is a strength that our clients may not recognize in themselves due to feelings of self-doubt, low self-esteem, etc. While engaging with our clients, we should create a safe space and use language that is empowering, strength based, and encouraging.”
This is what our staff strive for here at NEW, to help our ladies recognize their value, strength and impact. Thank you for your support and genuine care that allows us to empower those we serve.
Yasmine, 35, was born in New Jersey, one of four siblings. She had dreams of becoming a writer, always keeping journals where she detailed her life’s ups and downs. But motherhood and an abusive relationship set her off track and she found herself in Arizona in need of an escape. She and her kids got on a bus and four days later, she arrived in Washington, D.C. where she stayed at My Sister’s Place, a nonprofit for domestic violence survivors. About nine months ago, she and her three kids, Lily, age 6, Cody, age 4 and little Ethan age 3 moved into NEW’s New Horizons, a permanent-supportive program for mothers and children .
Yasmine is grateful for NEW and her case managers. “No matter what, it’s nice to know that our den is our den.”
Yasmine is upbeat and hopeful despite her challenges and her love and care for her children is obvious. While Yasmine is working 16-32 hours a week at night as a concierge in Northwest, her mom or neighbor watches the kids. The flexibility of her job allows her to be at home during the day to help with online school. She gets home around 8 am, squeezes in a short nap, and then gets her kids dressed and ready for the day. Lily and Cody log on to virtual school at their nearby school.
“I try to be as creative as possible with the kids,” Yasmine says. “We find playgrounds and go on nature walks. I try to keep them as active as possible.” Lily loves sticks, bugs and all things nature. Cody loves trucks and he runs down the sidewalk when he sees one drive by. Ethan loves the drums and will take anything, a spoon, a pencil, and start a beat. (“And he’s good!” his mom says.)
“I try to let them show me how to be a mom,” Yasmine says. “In order to maintain my sanity, I have to let them lead.”
Yasmine still has dreams of becoming a writer. She has 14 college credits but she doesn’t have time to finish at this point. “Until I get an extra hour for myself…” she says. But she already has a title and a couple pages of her first book, “Melon Street,” a memoir. Maybe if things calm down soon, she could take an online writing class. But then she’s also trying to get Lily into a ballet class, Cody into a Karate class, and she would love to find a little drum set for Ethan.
“I’m trying to battle being complacent,” she says. “NEW is very appreciated, but this is a starting place not a stopping place.”
When the pandemic hit in March, NEW saw an outpouring of supporters wanting to help. In person volunteering was off but the women — especially the seniors living alone — needed connections more than ever.
NEW launched a volunteer letter-writing campaign, enlisting volunteers to regularly write letters to the women at NEW in an effort to help them feel a little less isolated. Almost 60 volunteers signed up and have since then written hundreds of letters. The NEW women love these little expressions of support and encouragement from strangers in their community. They look forward to them, and often display them around their rooms and apartments.
“My ladies absolutely adore the letters,” said Case Manager Dom Dipini who still meets her clients regularly, masked and at a safe distance, despite the pandemic. “They talk about the letters all the time.”
It’s been a little light in a dark time for the NEW women and a help for the case managers trying to keep their clients positive and healthy.
But the letters have equally affected the letter writers as well, providing them with a way to care for people in their community during these strange times.
“I have been writing a weekly note to one of the women living at a NEW location for over four months,” said volunteer and NEW Vice Chair board member Iris Drayton-Spann. “I usually write the notes over a weekend, so that I can mail them to her once a week. I put positive quotes or sayings or words of encouragement. I have music playing in the background as I write my notes. My husband always knows when I’m writing out my notes, from the gentle sounds of jazz and R&B coming out of the Alexa dot.”
It’s also made the volunteers more thankful for what they have, realizing that not everyone has a support system to fall back on. Kristen Burke has been writing a letter a month to her pen pal, sometimes including poetry or watercolor paintings.
“I have enjoyed creating the cards for her,” she said. “In a time that I often feel anxious and isolated, I reflect on my gratitude in having community—whether that be roommates to share meals with, family to call, or friends in different cities to text and FaceTime with. It makes me further appreciate my community. And now I have loved being able to extend my community to the include NEW and my pen pal.”
The letter writers have found routine and solace in their efforts as they spread a love for women — strangers whom they have never met — who have experienced homelessness.
“I feel so much better after I write these note cards,” Drayton-Spann said. “They put me in a different mindset, because of the pandemic. I’m able to express kindness to someone else and hopefully put a smile on her face when she checks her mail.”
These little acts of kindness seem so much more important right now, at a year marked by division. Another volunteer, Rev. Minette Wood wrote about her experience writing letters.
“I recall waking up on a rainy day with a passionate urgency to write to my pen pal. That day, I wrote my first letter. In writing, I felt strangely connected to my pen pal (whom I never met). What matters the most to me is not that she necessarily replies but, that she receives, reads, and is encouraged by the note. As a letter writer, I am planting and sowing seeds of hope and encouragement. The note, letter or card is planted in her heart and her thoughts, so when those weak moments, triggers, voices of negativity, and loneliness attempt to sabotage her success, she will have something that speaks to her positively, hopefully lifting her spirits, knowing that someone genuinely cares.”
The women at NEW have not written their pen pals back, but that has not dissuaded the volunteers from continuing their selfless act, and relationships between volunteer and letter recipient forms nonetheless. Because the holidays can be challenging for many people, some volunteers are planning on writing even more letters this month.
“I hope she enjoys the notes, because I value being able to write them to her,” Drayton-Spann said. “I just want her to know, she is loved, she is special and she is my NEW pen pal.”
I would be hard pressed to find anyone right now who hasn’t felt the stress of the last week. These times continue to be unprecedented, and even though the ballots have finally all been counted and the winner named, the country remains divided and our problems numerous. Because we know the kind of giving people you are, you might be wondering:
“What can I do to make it better?”
Supporters like you have already done so much to add goodness to our NEW community and beyond. Because of your generosity of heart and your giving spirit, we have continued to be able to serve almost 200 women and children through the pandemic including 27 new women and 3 children. NEW is small enough that you really do have a direct impact on the lives of the women NEW serves. We are so impressed that despite all that is going on, we have been able to rely on you and you have shown up virtually, financially and so thoughtfully with brightly colored bags full of goodies for our women. You have provided the caring and hope that the world has needed during these challenging times.
What now? Our work continues as our case managers every day help women step by step regain control of their lives, even in a pandemic. Like you, the NEW staff is a bright spot in a dark time and seeing them care for the women brings me so much joy.
We all need to take a breath and find a little peace, even if just for a moment, before we can find the energy to continue to care for the most vulnerable women in our city. Together, with good people like you in our community, city, and country, we can help women in need, help end homelessness and help put a little good back into the world.
Email Moira if you would like to virtually volunteer as a pen pal to one of our women, or if you have an idea about a virtual workshop or game night.
What does a stay-at-home order look like for someone experiencing homelessness? This is a question I think about often these days as we adapt to a new world- one that would have been unimaginable at this time last year. As businesses like gyms and libraries closed, access to simple resources like showers, working outlets, and air conditioning became even more difficult to navigate. Inequity and poverty have not paused in the face of a global pandemic, but neither have we.
We are still here, providing safe housing to 152 women and children. Our case managers are meeting with our clients via phone and socially-distanced meetings to check in on their progress and health. We’ve increased cleaning services and purchased PPE for clients and staff so we can limit the spread of germs. Throughout this process, the women we serve have remained hopeful, optimistic, and resilient. One woman joked that she wouldn’t be adding a year to her age at her next birthday because this one doesn’t count. We agree!
What’s our secret to continuing this work in such uncertain times? You. Our community of supporters has met these times of isolation with intentional connection. You have met uncertainty with generosity and love. I am excited to share this issue of reNEWal with you so you can see the beauty your generosity has cultivated.
Sarah Gochenaur (sounds like go-ken-our) arrived in the DC-area in 2014 with $200 in her pocket and two suitcases. The oldest of four kids from Long Island, Sarah, NEW’s new Director of Development and Communications, moved in with her boyfriend, now husband, and started looking for a job.
“Any job under the sun, I have probably done it,” she says: tax preparer, volunteer program associate, corporate partnership developer, outdoor education professional. But when she started working for AmeriCorps, she discovered her love for nonprofits.
“I feel like I have a responsibility to make the world a better place so nonprofits have provided this beautiful avenue to do that,” she says. “Working with nonprofits gives me faith in humanity and it’s easy to see that people are more beautiful, thoughtful and wonderful than you ever thought before.”
Sarah started working in development in 2017 at Capital Area Food Bank where she realized she was good at developing relationships with potential corporate partners. She came to NEW from Muslim Advocates where she was Development Officer. She was drawn to NEW and it’s mission, especially with its focus on women. “Women are really the backbone of families and entire communities. They really are the crux of society. If we fail them, if we don’t take care of them to help them get up again, we risk whole communities suffering. It just makes sense to be concerned about women, housing and stability.”
Sarah started working at NEW in May and while the pandemic has made it a strange time to start a new job, Sarah says that everyone at NEW has been welcoming and that she has already been inspired by the work.
“If I had to show someone a nonprofit that gave me faith in the world, it would be NEW,” Sarah says. “Seeing the staff go above and beyond, knowing that the support from donors hasn’t stopped with COVID, everyone understands that our work keeps going even in the face of a global pandemic. It’s inspiring.”
“R” moved to Washington, DC a few years ago with his mom, brother and two sisters. The family was fleeing a domestic abuse crisis and looking to start over. They found NEW. Today R. and his siblings are academically thriving. In a recent newsletter, we wrote about his sister L. who is attending college. Well, now R. is coming up behind her, earning a 3.56 to finish his sophomore year at Bishop McNamara High School AND getting inducted into the National Honor Society.
“The sky’s the limit for R.,” his case manager Wakeena Corbin says. “When he found out about getting in the National Honor Society, he called me and said ‘Oh my gosh Ms. Wakeena!’ I told him, “See, all your hard work paid off.”
Wakeena has been a constant support for R. who loves history and chemistry and plans on pursuing an engineering degree. “Ms. Wakeena, she keeps me on top of my work,” R. says. “She’ll call me and when my computer tablet broke, she went to school to get me a new one.”
Wakeena says that R’s success has inspired his younger siblings, sixth grader K. and ninth grader E. “Now the brothers and sisters are competing against each to do well in school and keep up,” she says.
Wakeena helped R’s sister through the college application process, and she is excited to help R., who wants to go to college in California, too.
“R. is absolutely wonderful,” Wakeena says. “He knows I believe in him.”
“I’m very grateful for the people here at New Endeavors,” R. says.
It’s been a challenging time for all of us as we adjust our days, our budgets and our expectations to COVID-19. And now, add a city and country grasping for footing after the death of an unarmed black man by a white police officer and we all feel even more out of control, unstable, and concerned about the future. Here at NEW we know that one way we can process our own feelings is to think about the needs and feelings of others.
We need you. The women need you. Your community needs you. Now more than ever women and children in DC need a safe and stable place to live.